Thinking about it, wishing it were true, dreaming of the day, getting around to it. Those and $2 will get me a cup of coffee. In my office is a wheel barrow. When I hear one of those comments, I just point - put something in the wheel barrow. My son suggests do three things a day to move toward you goal. At the end of a year you'll have over a thousand accomplishments that have helped you along that path. Tony Robins does a shout out for an "Hour of Power" Give yourself that hour just for you. He says, "Build your day or someone will build it for you!". I tell all my couples to take a walk and talk , around the block, three times a week to build a stronger relationship. Take Action. Do something. Do it now. Now is the only time we have. Now is where life is.